The Trouble With Mom Bloggers

February 12, 2009 by Kelly 

This is a guest post by mom blogger, Carrie Lauth.trouble-ahead

Last weekend, I spent two days with 250 mom bloggers.

I had a blast. I made new friends. I shared pizza, beer, chocolate, a chick flick, a dance floor, handsome Greek opera singers, a painfully slow wi-fi connection, elevators and a hotel room with funny, intelligent, beautiful, artistic, nutty, gifted, amazing women.

Still, the experience left me wanting.

Why? Because there was something that bothered me about the mom bloggers. Not all of them, mind you, but a goodly portion. So I decided to write this article to name what it is that troubled me.

The trouble with mom bloggers is that they don’t value their blog enough

For a lot of us, blogging is a hobby. For others among us, it’s a business. For some it’s both. Either way, your blog is a valuable vehicle that you can leverage for more income, more publicity, more friends, more sanity, or more whatever it is you’re seeking.

Treat it like the valuable resource it is, and it will respond accordingly. The first step? Publish it on your own domain, not a free blog subdomain. If it’s not worth $10 a year to you, why would anyone else take it seriously?

The trouble with mom bloggers is they don’t value their time enough

A lot of mom bloggers are writing for others (expanding their business) at no real benefit to themselves. Many are writing amazing product reviews for companies without pay (or without monetization that would earn them income in the future) and giving these companies (with huge marketing budgets!) free advertising.

Even if you have no interest in earning income from your blog, it’s smart to at least learn the basics of monetization so that if your situation changes, you CAN turn on the income faucet. At the very least, since writing for your blog takes time away from other activities, why not earn something for your time? In the economic times we live in, it’s just smart.

The trouble with mom bloggers is they don’t value their sidebar enough

When I visit mom blogs and see dozens of buttons that exist to look cutesy or to advertise their friends, I cringe inside. A blogroll is a great idea, but it’s best to put it on one page of your blog. I’m all about promoting other moms with my blog posts, but the links on your sidebar that every one of your visitors see each time they visit your blog should benefit you more directly. They should either direct people deeper into your content or to encourage them to sign up for your newsletter or RSS feed, or monetized with affiliate links.

The trouble with mom bloggers is they don’t value their expertise enough

I know many mom bloggers who are much smarter than me, who are far better writers, who are funny and make me laugh out loud and spit coffee at my computer screen or who have seemingly limitless knowledge on a particular subject. I wonder why more mom bloggers don’t have their own information product (ebook, workbook, audio) to sell? Whether it’s an ebook with their best kid crafting projects or healthy recipes or printable home management and organization lists, a mom blogger could easily create an income stream by pasting some of her best blog posts and tips into a product to sell.

If you’re a mom blogger reading this article, consider it a personal challenge to see how much more you can value yourself, your words and your blog.

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carrie-lauth
Carrie Lauth has been blogging for over 5 years. Her mom blog is at Natural Moms Talk Radio, where she talks about natural parenting as a newly single mom. Carrie Lauth is her business blog, where she shares free tips for making money from your blog.

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Comments

  • This is a great post full of good tips about creating a blog that works for you. As a mommy blogger for quite a few years now I've become more aware of my readership and how valuable my little piece of Internet real estate really is. Thanks for bringing the points home again!

    <abbr>CeeCee´s last blog post..Natural Remedies for Asthma</abbr>
  • Thank Carrie! This is great advice! I am getting ready to write my first eBook and am looking for all the tips, advice and suggestions I can find!

    <abbr>Mary Lutz´s last blog post..Women’s Life Empowerment Bootcamp</abbr>
  • Thanks so much! Great!
  • Great article Carrie! I know personally, my sidebar needs to be cleaned up. I also agree about not valuing our time enough. I also think as moms (and women) we apologize way too much or feel guilty about earning something we DESERVE! I was so glad to have met you. Thanks for writing this great piece. :)

    <abbr>Briana @ Bargain Briana´s last blog post..The future of coupons: Valassis Yanks Red Plum Inserts in Several Large Markets</abbr>
  • Becca
    I think you're right on target with this. Why do so many women lose confidence in themselves when they become Mommies? Sad. Thanks for point this out.

    :-)
  • Great article! Isn't it interesting the recurring them of how women continually under value themselves, whether it be blogging, their job, their value as a wife and mother... the list goes on. Ladies, we should all keep in mind that we are a powerful force in the economy, to family values, and more. Don't sell yourself short, ever!

    Cheers from Vancouver, Canada!
    Lucia

    <abbr>Lucia´s last blog post..25% Off Chapters Indigo (In-Store Coupon)</abbr>
  • Great post Carrie. While I want to make money from my blog, I'm afraid ads might turn people off.

    <abbr>Nanette´s last blog post..Disorganized Mommy</abbr>
  • Great post, and it was so great to meet you just talking with you motivated me..I have to start working smart..thanks for the great tips...I need too know so much more and look forward to continuing our conversation from Blissdom. I also have an idea that I want to talk with you about..so I will call you now!!! Thanks Beth

    <abbr>Beth Rosen´s last blog post..Another nincompoop blogger moment!</abbr>
  • Excellent post! I've discovered lately a lot of big name mom bloggers and when I visit their sites, they are hosted on blogspot, and there is so much noise on the sidebar I can't even concentrate to read the posts. The success potential is there, ready to be tapped.

    <abbr>Barbara´s last blog post..Friday Faves Feb 13</abbr>
  • Great article Carrie! As always you leave me with food for thought. I so agree with the sidebar thing and the blogroll. I do have awesome mom bloggers on a page of resources and i think that works well :)

    <abbr>LaTara´s last blog post..Woman You Are Virtuous by Design</abbr>
  • You're such a beautiful woman, Carrie. I'm always taken aback by how naturally beautiful you are.

    Now that we got that out of the way I have to say I agree.

    What I'd like to see more of is Mommy Bloggers using affiliate links to promote things. I often see Mommy Bloggers linking to sites that offer affiliate programs and yet they are just linking to the homepage and not using an aff link.

    There are many HUGE Mommy Bloggers that have LOADS of traffic and commenters and loyal readers that could be making a lot more money than they are.

    Maybe they don't want to but if you're going to mention a product anyway why not use an affiliate link?

    Nell

    <abbr>Nell @ casual friday everyday´s last blog post..The Secret</abbr>
  • Carrie,

    What a great article! I love how you are so eager to see other moms succeed. You've given me lots of things to think about and tackle on my blog.

    Heather

    <abbr>Heather@justdoingmybest´s last blog post..Smart clothing purchases for children</abbr>
  • This is such a great article. The parts that hit me was the sidebar and the expertise. I use to put a blogroll on my sidebar, but now that I have a new layout I am definitely going to change it so it can be on it's own page.

    As far as being an expert and having products. I am definitely going to push myself. I am currently working on a e-book/book haven't decided as yet and I would like to produce some other products that I have done for myself that I really don't see on the market. I am new to blogging so getting this information at this stage in my blogging career is so valuable.

    <abbr>Felicia - I Complete Me´s last blog post..The Perfect Marriage</abbr>
  • Terrific article, Carrie! And so true, especially the part about valuing our expertise. I am in the process of creating my first E-book myself, and have a list of other infoproducts I'd like to produce in the future.

    I just hope I am able to follow through not let anything get in my way. But I have to tell you, a few times while writing this E-book, I just wanted to scrap everything because I didn't believe in myself. Fortunately, I have gotten a lot of moral support from fellow WAHMs and other Internet marketers... and I will get this E-book done and out in the market - that's a promise!

    <abbr>Lexi´s last blog post..The Unlimited Freelancer: A Review</abbr>
  • Thanks for the tips!

    <abbr>Marya´s last blog post..1000 Words</abbr>
  • I really enjoyed this! I'm a new blogger and will be using your advice! Thanks again!

    <abbr>Courtney-Gift Mommy´s last blog post..Necklush</abbr>
  • Good tips Carrie. I especially like the sidebar one. Something to think about. Sometimes we need a little push.

    <abbr>Melitsa´s last blog post..Carnival of Parenting Podcasts No.21</abbr>
  • Carrie,

    I knew I was left wanting something. You hit the nail on the head with this. I felt as if they needed to know MORE! AMen I couldn't have said it better myself!

    Your MM buddy,
    Alyssa
  • Awesome article Carrie! I agree - this is how I started blogging a few years back. I have learned so much though and now am happy cause I make money blogging.

    <abbr>Marie´s last blog post..Weight Loss and Exercise Misconceptions</abbr>
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